The following
represents the a draft of the introduction to a book I am planning to
write in the future on Self Parenting:
In The Beginning
There Was Awareness ~ Joel Rachelson, PhD
I was struggling
in an attempt to figure out how to begin this book. I like to start
off with basic concepts. It occurred to me then that the most basic
thing at this very moment for you is that you are reading this book.]
It then occurred
to me to take a minute and consider why this was. What is or has
motivated you to be looking at these words right now. The result of
the consideration as to why anyone would purchase a self help book
seems to be a good news bad news scenario. The bad news is that you
are motivated to purchase a book like this because something is wrong
in your life. That you might be feeling unhappy or depressed, confused
or empty, anxious or driven by demons, tired of pretending or just
tired of not feeling good about yourself. I am saddened if that is
true for you and saddened that the absence of a chronic sense of
happiness and confidences seems to be so pervasive for so many.
This unfortunate
pervasive unhappiness is not really all that surprising if we consider
the lack of training or modeling that is given in order to show us how
to be happy, satisfied, or interpersonally successful.
The good news is
that you are to be congratulated for not being content to be
dissatisfied and passively stuck. You are obviously committed and
willing to finding answers for yourself.
And that’s
exactly what I propose in this book. The goal of this book is to
provide a user friendly classroom so that you can become an expert
student of yourself. The first lesson or requirement of this class on
SELF 101 is awareness.
You obviously
are interested enough for whatever reason, to take significant steps
to increasing your awareness.
You are taking
steps to begin you or keep you on what I think is the most important
path you can take in this life. This is the path of expanding
awareness and self knowledge.
It means being
awake and more conscious about yourself and those around you.
Being awake,
aware and self knowledgeable has many important benefits such as:
· Increased confidence, security and serenity
· Increased capacity for personal and professional success
· Increased connectedness and spiritual clarity
· Increased capacity for selflessness and generosity
· Increased interest/thirst for self knowledge and more personal and
spiritual growth
· Increased ease, effectiveness, and satisfaction in interacting with
loved ones
It is a little
unsettling and somewhat frustrating to consider that most are content
to remain ignorant of themselves. Many people, for a variety of
reasons do seem to have an avoidance of self knowledge or an allergy
to looking inside.
It seems ironic
or not very smart that we don’t spend time learning how to operate our
own personal life vehicle. Would you try to operate a vehicle (or
anything where we spend all of our time) that you didn’t understand
without studying it first. Yet our culture seems to support this
avoidance or continued ignorance by not encouraging much in the way of
increased awareness or self knowledge.
Why don’t they
teach self understanding at school or at home? (Or even on TV--a game
show perhaps?)
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