Managing Stress, Managing
Change ~ By George Beshara
Reprinted with permission from the Heart and Spirit Website.
Are you feeling more and more stressed these days. Do you have enough
time for yourself, for your family, for your friends, for making new
friends, or is it work, work, work? If you are feeling very stressed
and are even feeling perhaps out of control, you can rest assured that
you are not alone in this.
There is no question in my mind that as a society, we are
experiencing an extraordinary amount of stress brought about by an
extraordinary amount of change. The challenge we have all been facing
since the mid-eighties, has really come from the unfolding of the
communications revolution.
Since that time we have experienced major re-organizations at work,
while learning to adapt and use micro-computers, faxes, cellular
phones, voice mail, e-mail and the Internet. The integration of these
technologies in the workplace has progressively turned us into a
society, which is "continually-in-learning" as well as a society,
which expects "spontaneous results".
In order to learn to adapt to the changing world and to serve our
customers efficiently, a large number of us are now working longer
hours, and are taking work home with us. In fact with the laptop
computers, and the cellular phones, we are perhaps taking our whole
office, home with us every night.
This can be fun and exciting at the beginning, but when it becomes
part of our daily routine, we then start to burnout and to question
the meaningfulness of our work and our life. This is why managing
stress and developing good daily habits, which do in fact begin with
nutrition and exercising, is so important today.
However, while nutrition and fitness, are very important, it's not
enough. We do also need to truly love our work and to find it
meaningful. And the only way we can find meaningfulness in our work is
to ensure that we are involved in an occupation which we love and
through which we have the opportunity to regularly use our special
gifts. It is also essential that we learn to once again to balance our
work and our personal life, even if it means saying no from time to
time.
Finally, we need to learn more than ever to "live in the
present" and we can do this best by becoming regularly involved in
activities we enjoy and which absorb our total attention.